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Author:Olivia Sommer [Sommer, Olivia]
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Published: 2016-02-17T06:00:00+00:00

Communicating

A lack of communication often underlies many of our problems. If something is bothering us and we cannot find a way to deal with it through communication the problem prolongs and gets larger. It builds a head of steam, so to speak. No doubt you have witnessed this and experienced it yourself. Take the drug addict for example. They hide there addiction, but if able to reach out and communicate they can get help. Let’s face it, some of us are good at communicating and some of us cannot communicate very well. I’d like to show you some techniques that can help the process. Even though we often communicate with those closest to us, there are times when we have to share things with professionals. There is nothing wrong with counseling. However, there are good counselors and there are bad ones. So if you are getting professional advice and are not satisfied, find someone else.

It has been my experience that most people are not able to have a frank and open dialogue with their significant other. There are so many reasons for this. We don’t want to hurt someones feelings, we might be embarrassed about something or we might have done a bad thing and cannot let it out, fearing it might lead to a breakup or horrible fight. For example, “He will get mad at me and start yelling and I don’t want to listen to it anymore”. Or it could be that we are just bad communicators. It is not our fault. Often it is a result of a family environment that lacked love and warmth and good verbal exchange.

Also, and this is important, communication can take place between you and a higher force. In other words, there is nothing wrong with meditating about something or praying about it in an attempt to let go and get past it, and even grow.

Life teaches us things through tests and difficulties. If we pass the tests we grow. Regret and remorse allow us to overcome problems. Did you ever notice how the same issue often confronts us over and over again. It will keep coming until we face it and deal with it and communication may be the key.

Here is a simple exercise that you can do with your partner. It helps center us and brings closeness to the relationship. Both people need to sit in a chair and face each other. The distance should be close, say about 2-3 feet away. You start with simple exercises. Most of us are not good at completing a communication circle and this exercise helps overcome this.

A communication circle starts with a statement, such as: “Good morning my love, how are you doing this morning”. Now if the other person says something like: “Okay, but a little tired” and then stops, the circle is not complete. The end result is broken communication and this leads to a weakening in the relationship. The second person, should have said: “Okay, but a little tired, how are you feeling this morning”.

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